UNofficial Town Hall

Here's a reminder of when the upcoming UNofficial Town Hall will be (UNofficial meaning that there will be no site reps attending). This will be an opportunity for bloggers to vent their frustration but nobody expects any issues to be resolved from this session (not that we ever expect any serious issues to be resolved through official channels as it is). 

Date:

Saturday, January 27, 2024 (UK/US time)

Time:

Detroit: 15:00

London: 20:00

Austin: 14:00

Tokyo: 05:00 (Sunday)

Los Angeles: 12:00 noon

Venue:

Live From AFF

Ahead of the town hall, here are a few reviews I found on the various sites I posted links to in another post (see here). This is what the peeps in IRL really think about AFF. No wonder we need a vent session without worries about censorship. 

January 3rd, 2024

I'm a woman, I was on AFF for about 4 days. The gender balance must be skewed because I got like 300 messages in that time. I couldn't reply to all of them. Many guys started off mean because they thought I was a fake profile. Many guys messaged aggressively over and over again. Then suddenly my account got reported and deleted. I think it was someone in my inbox I hadn't replied to. Thought it was a fluke so made a new profile and started building connections again, and within 2 days someone reported me and got my account deleted. All the men complain about bots… but report and ban real women for not responding fast enough. I never did anything against community guidelines and all my interactions were polite and flirtatious. The company refused to look into the reason I was flagged. If you're a dude you should know that some losers on the site make it their personal mission to ban real women.

Dec 19, 2023

100% scammer infiltrated! They don't police their own platform. It's being misused by scammers from all over the world who prey on your money and invent all kinds of slick schemes to get it

II was trying hard to find a real woman on AFF but it turned out to be impossible. AFF is bull crap to put it nicely. 15 women tried to scam me. Notifying AFF customer service of these occurences was a pointless waste of time and made no difference - all these profiles are still active online 24/7.

Dec 11, 2023

i became paid member and the only responses was getting spams, bots ,fake profiles and uncaring response from admin. They took my membership money but never gave me anything , Worst ever experience, don't do it.

November 21st, 2023 Verified purchase

I bought a 3 month membership. I was not happy with it, I got to chat with a few people, which was fun. I found no one I wanted to meet, or to have cyber with.

With about three weeks left on my membership, I wrote on my profile, I was no longer willing to pay for the membership.

Somehow,,,, it was changed to " I am willing to pay for sex" Crooked Moderators? Who knows.

I was send a notice to change my profile. I was working at the time it came

I received a notice I was banned for soliciting an hour later.

I was still working. I tried to call customer support and they told me my profile said "I was willing to pay for sex"

There is no appeal, I asked if I could see what it said on my profile and was told I would need a court order to see it.

It's no big deal, as I spent my time avoiding the bots and scammers when I was there.

It might be an alright site for a young person, I am older, I did talk to some nice people. However, most the sex stuff seemed to be gay orientated, not my cup of tea.

Nov 20, 2023

I decided to pace this review after…using the site for 3 months

I'm not here to mention that the users are all fake or whatsoever, but the main issue I'd like to point out is that the webmaster of the website do absolutely nothing about fake and reported profiles. YOU CAN ALSO MAKE SURE THAT ANY PROFILE LABELLED AS "CONFIRMED" ARE EVEN ALSO FAKE, NOT REAL A BIT.

I have flagged several profiles a s fake with concrete and obvious evidences which are mostly profiles using a celebrity or a pornstar picture as their profile avatar. I have provided super clear evidences to show that the profiles are fake. WITH EVIDENCES. Yet they absolutely did nothing about it.

My final view is that this website is phishing and collecting peoples money in a legit looking way.

I'm now %100 sure that this website is a SCAM

November 6th, 2023

All of their AIs cannot answer simple yes or no questions do not respond for at least a week or two threatening to illegally sue you if you try to cancel your credit card stay away from this site. Complete joke.

Nov 4, 2023

This is a scam website

This is a scam website! I had Gold for 3 months, managet d disable autorenewal of it. Only for the Standart Contacts fee it was not possible to disable, whichever way i tried!

Now they charged my Card 40$ for this sh¡††y Standard Contacts and i'm still not able to disable the ƒu©king autorenewal! I need to stop them via my credit card company! A big middlefinger to AFF!

Oct 29, 2023

The site is a scam

The site is a scam. They will close your account for reasons such as “violation of terms of use” and never send an email with the terms of use so you can find out what you did that was wrong. They do not refund your money either. If you pay $245 for a year membership, they will not give it back. My account was closed while it was being reviewed for approval. I got only three days of limited use before they closed it and took my money. The phone support is rude and unhelpful. They claim you can not get information account without a court order. So, you have no recourse to complain about their predatory policies.

October 28th, 2023

The site is a scam. They will close your account for reasons such as "violation of terms of use" and never send an email with the terms of use so you can find out what you did that was wrong. They will send notification from interested members to your email, but no emails to tell you that your account was closed or why. They do not refund your money either. If you pay $245 for a year membership, they will not give it back. My account was closed while it was being reviewed for approval. I got only three days of limited use before they closed it and took my money. The phone support is rude and unhelpful. They claim you can not get information about your account without a court order. So, you have no recourse to complain about their predatory policies.

September 3rd, 2023

The vast majority of profiles are fake...scammers trying to get details for id theft, or get you off platform and send you phishing links or invitations to dubious websites.

In addition to no vetting process for profiles, I was ironically

suddenly locked out of site two thirds of way through my subscription period, and when I wrote to help desk to get help, after numerous emails back and forth was told I had violated their terms of use and my account was being deleted with no refund, no explanation or proof of what terms of use had been violated, and no terms of recourse offered.

Shameful extortionist racket.

 August 20th, 2023

I have been on AdultFriendFinder(AFF) for over 6 months now, and I haven't met one single person in real life. Why?

Because profiles on AFF are (For the most part) one of the following:

1. Bots (50%) - These are the profiles with only one picture. These profiles are artificially generated by AFF in order to claim they have so many subscribers. The people on those profiles don't exist.

2. Scammers (20%) - These are the profiles with 2 or 3 low quality pics or pictures with model-looking women.

*They will try to get you to chat with them via Google Chat or Telegram. Why? Because they want to get your email.

*When you ask them for their Kik name, they will always say they don't use Kik and refer you back to using Google Chat or Telegram.

*If they give you their actual phone number, you will notice that the area code is from another state. When you try calling them, they will never pickup and make all sorts of excuses. You will never hear their voice, nor will they ever face-time with you.

*If you give them your phone number, they will start texting you to get other personal information such as your address, age, full-name, the type car you drive, etc.

*Once they have your full name, email and phone number, they will break into your email account, try to find your credentials to get to your bank accounts, and commit identity theft. Thus, never give your real name, phone number or email to anyone on this site, or any other confidential information.

3. Streamers (10%) - These are the girls with lots of professionally made pics and videos. They will never meet you in real life. They just want you to subscribe to their only-fans website for a monthly fee.

4. Exhibitionists (10%) - They are real women who just want their naughty videos and pics to be shown publicly. They use AFF as an alternative to my-only-fans channel to feed their ego. They don't want to meet anyone in real life.

Now comes the real danger to this site:

5. Psychopaths (5%) - These are mentally-ill, mean-spirited individuals, who actually want to meet up with you in real life to do some type of physical harm to you.

Scenario 1: They will use the actual girl in the pics as bait. She will try to get you to meet her (Typically on the second or third date) in a far-off location outside the city limits where your phone won't have signal. Yes, she and her partners are serial killers. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity?

Scenario 2: The girl in the pic, will ask you to meet in complete darkness at a random house (no talking allowed, no cellphone allowed). As you enter the house, she will blindfold you so you won't see her face. She will then take you to her bedroom, get you naked, and tie you up to the bed. Once you are completely defenseless and vulnerable, she will leave. 20 or 30 minutes later, the cops will show up and you will be charged with property trespass, burglary, or homicide. Yes, it's a total set-up and you are their stupid pray. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity?

Scenario 3: The girl in the pic is not really who she says she is. Again, she will ask you to meet in complete darkness at a random house (no talking allowed, no cellphone allowed). As you enter the house, she will blindfold or just take you to the bedroom in complete darkness, so you won't see what she actually looks like. In the bedroom, she will get you naked and do oral to you. She won't allow you to talk or touch her for good 45 minutes. At some point, sadly you will learn that she is not a girl, it's a transexual or just a guy cross-dressed that has been sucking your balls. This is called "sexual assault". When you confront him, the guy can turn really violent. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity?

These are just 3 scenarios of many possibilities.

6. Grannies (5%) - These are real women (Between 58 and 85) who actually want to meet up with you in real life to have sex.

In Summary: If what you want is to talk to Bots (50%), have Scammers (20%) break into you bank account or steal your identity, subscribe to a Streamer's (10%) only-fans website, watch the videos or pics of Exhibitionist (10%), be a victim (be murdered, be sexually assaulted or be charged with someone else's crime) of a sick Psychopath (5%), or you just want to have sex with old Grannies (5%); then, Adult Friend Finder is definitely for you.

You are probably wondering, well, why does Adult Friend have so many positive reviews? Because many of those "positive" reviews are artificially generated by AdultFriendFinder, otherwise they would be out of business.

Disclaimer: This is an honest review from a real live breathing person. Nobody (institution or private individual) is paying me to write this review. Nor am I getting any benefits (such as products or services) from anyone to write this review. This review is based on what I have learned from my interactions with the people behind the profiles at AdultFriendFinder over the course of the past 6 months.